How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend or Girlfriend Back

What YOU do after immediately after a break-up determines whether you STAY or GET BACK together with your ex boyfriend or girlfriend.

Have You Being...

Crying yourself to sleep because you can’t stop thinking about your break up?
 Feeling helpless because your partner won’t talk or listen to you when you mention getting back together?
Feeling CONFUSED and SHOCKED by the break up because you can’t figure out WHY your ex left in the first place? 

Searching endlessly for a soluton on exactly what to do, say or act to make your lover want you back again?

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Here are some signs and what they might mean:

1. Your ex continues to keep in contact with you and initiate contact with you. Do not mistake this as times when they ‘have to’ out of obligation. This means they contact you for no reason just to chat and catch up.
2. They are not seeing anyone new and are not planning on pursuing new relationships anytime soon.
3. They are trying to better themselves, by visually changing their appearance to one they know you would like, or they are improving their personality or habit to appear more attractive to you.
4. They are always sweet, nice and generous when they are around you. They want to offer you advice and help you whenever they can.
5. They have spoken about the break up and pointed out their point of view about things that might have been misunderstood at the time. They also try to let you know how they would do things differently.
6. They are flirtatious and possibly slightly flustered and nervous when you’re around them.
7. They make an effort to spend time with you when you really need them.
8. They talk of the future as if you’re going to be in it.
 

If most of these ring a bell with you, then they are still in love with you and continue to have hope there is a possible future with you. However, this does NOT necessarily mean your ex will get back with you if you asked them right then and there. If they did the breaking up, right now they are sending very mixed and confusing signals. If that is true then that would mean:

- They have mixed emotions. On the one hand they want to be with you but on the other, the problems that caused the break up in the first place still lingers in the back of their mind.
- They are waiting to see what you will do. In a way they are keeping an eye on you and testing you to see if you’ll change a certain behaviour or habit that caused the break up in the first place.
- They are ‘teasing you’. It could simply be an ego boast for them knowing that you want them. How can you really tell?
- They need more time and need to be single for now. Some people really DO need to take a break from a relationship, especially one that has been going well. They need this time to find out who they are on their own. This is extremely important. This is something they need to do to better their future relationships with anyone, whether it is you, someone else or simply with themselves. Be a friend for them and they will be ever grateful to you.

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So Is Your Ex Leading You On ?

So you’ve been through the terribly pain of the break up, now you expect everything to be different, but somehow your Ex is STILL acting like you’re in a relationship together.. but the catch is.. you’re NOT! This is where you’re going to say to yourself.. “What the hell is going on here?!?!” Amazingly, this is incredibly COMMON, but the bad news is, it can also go on and on for a long time after the break up and NOTHING could happen. It’s you being strung along, as a half friend half love interest.. sort of thing! Is your ex just stringing you along? Is your ex leading you on for their own amusement?

Sure-Fire Signs to Look Out For If You’re Worried Your Ex Might Be Leading You On:

1. Your ex continues to contact you and want you to do things for them even though they’re in a new relationship.
This is common especially when they know you have deep feelings for them and you don’t want to let go of the relationship. Your Ex could be taking advantage of the situation and merely enjoy the attention they’re getting.

2. Your Ex continues to tell you they love you and even want to be physical with you, but when asked for commitment, they back away cold.
This can be very confusing and hurtful. Your ex is enjoying the fact that they can have you whenever they want without the responsibilities of a full relationship. They are hanging onto you until something better comes along. Don’t allow this to continue.

3. When you always go out of your way to help your ex but when tables are turned, they leave you fending for yourself.
If all they do is come up with excuses when you need their help, it’s time to rethink what you’re doing. This is a one-sided relationship, what are YOU getting out of it?

When Your Ex is Genuinely Confused About Their Feelings For You:

In some instances your ex might really be confused about what they want. Sometimes people hate to admit they were wrong in the first place. Your ex might have feelings for you, they might even think they’ve made a mistake, but they’re uncertain how to tell you. It’s best to get your feelings out in the open and confront your ex. If they’re not just stringing you along, they will honestly not want to hurt you anymore.

Sometimes it’s very common for an Ex to be “on the fence” so to speak and not WANT to make a decision. When this happens, they’ll do what “feels good” in the moment. That might mean, they’ll call you missing you one minute, and then complain about you being coming on strong when they’ve explain how they “just want to be friends”.

It’s NOT a good idea to go around accusing them of the game they’re playing. Sometimes, they’re just not even aware of it, and it’s only a sign of the confused state THEY are in because of the break up.

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Having a plan to get your ex back is THE MOST IMPORTANT thing because you could easily be lead off track… or into the dreaded “friendzone” for life.

Thankfully, there IS a solution…

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